Finding a Balanced Perspective

This was an amazing week for me. I know my writing often has a grim tone, but cancer itself can be very grim. Since I am writing in a cancer blog, the content can seem quite depressing. This makes me contemplate how I can make my life less depressing. Is there something I can do to divert my thoughts from cancer to the positive? Is there anything positive about life with cancer?

The answer is not a hard yes or a hard no. It depends on how you occupy your mind and put your life and actions into perspective. For example, one perspective is that things could always be worse. I watched a documentary about a concentration camp and what the Jews had to endure. This, to me, is an extreme perspective—yes, things can get more worse than cancer. Then, you look at someone who has always been rich, powerful, and has never experienced illness or loss. This is the other extreme. So, where does that leave us? How do we find balance in our perspective?

Finding balance in perspective involves acknowledging both the good and the bad aspects of life. It is about recognizing that, while cancer is a significant challenge, there are still many positive elements to focus on. The love and support of my family, the unwavering affection of my partner, and the fulfillment I get from my amazing work are all sources of joy and strength. By actively appreciating these positives, I can create a more balanced view of my situation. It is not about ignoring the difficulties but about giving equal weight to the good things that make my life meaningful. This balanced perspective allows me to navigate my journey with a sense of gratitude and hope.

While my perspective on cancer has not changed much, my perspective on life has evolved. This shift has also influenced how I view people and myself. This week was amazing because of the love and support I felt from the people around me. Their kindness helped alter my feelings about my situation. I realized that things are not as hopeless as I had previously thought; in fact, they are not that bad at all. Yes, my cancer is difficult, and I must wear this thing on my head, but I am loved. This love and support have given me a renewed sense of hope and a more positive outlook on my situation

Cancer is tough, and the physical reminders are constant, but the love surrounding me shows that life is still profoundly beautiful. In the end, it is not the battles we face but the love we give and receive that truly shapes our journey. Weeks like this remind me that I feel, I smile, I cry, and most importantly, I am still alive.